angry at an old woman

I never thought I could be so angry at someone almost four times my age. Yet, she exists. And not only does she exist, she is Kyle's grandmother (or pseudo-mother). Not long ago, I held a great respect for her and her "preachings" (yes, she preaches). She sends out mass emails and mass letters to everyone and their mother describing, in detail, someone's personal situation. Last night, Kyle (in addition to the entire family) recieved an email from the Grandmother describing a family member's current issues with the law. Following that paragraph was a paragraph about Kyle and I. The paragraph started by stating how many schools Kyle has been accepted to so far. "Kyle has been accepted to many schools, while Emily has been accepted to none." nice. "Looks like Emily is going to have to make a tough choice" Aka: not go to law school/become a wife "It is no wonder Kyle has been accepted to so many schools with his high scores and writing ability, Emily's only hope is to get into Seattle U., IF they take her. Kyle is juggeling so many schools, while she has none." I don't think she was trying to be mean, but it hurt. I told Kyle to never speak to her about me EVER again. Nothing. zip. The really sad thing is, I have been accepted, by Suffolk in Boston. But that didn't seem to register with her. Plus, I still am waiting on 8 schools to respond back to me. My mother would tell me just to ignore it, to ignore her, but it's hard to ignore that kind of hurt.